Before sharing control
Check the app, device and invitation separately.
Pair locally first
Follow the maker’s instructions to connect the device to your phone. Confirm that local control works before troubleshooting a partner invitation. The Bluetooth pairing guide covers this first step.
Check whether both partners need accounts
Some app features require a contact, invitation or account. The Lovense Remote instructions describe accounts for live control; the We-Vibe app guide shows a separate long-distance section. Check current requirements for the exact app.
Agree on the session before sending access
Share only with an intended, consenting adult. Discuss when the invitation should be used, what controls are welcome, and how to stop. Check which account or display name the invite reveals.